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How to Get Over a Break Up
Painlessly
By Donald
Mills
If you’ve recently gone through a break
up in an important relationship, you may be suffering from a very bleak and
lonely outlook on life, but you do have at least one saving grace: Almost
everybody has been there at one point or another. Unfortunately, some people
do not take breakups well, but there are many others who have gone through
them and learned very important lessons from them that you can benefit from
if you allow yourself to listen and distinguish the useful advice from the
useless.
Keep in mind that there is nothing wrong with
going through a ‘grieving’ process. Where trouble starts to seep
in is when that process becomes permanent, or it transforms into a means
of self-abuse. Ultimately, every person in the world sees things from a slightly
different perspective, which means that long-term relationships are the exception
rather than the rule. There is nothing wrong with this; it would only be
a problem if there were just 2 people in the world. |
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| Here are a few important things to keep in
mind as you work your way through your breakup:
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Allow any feelings of sadness, anger, betrayal,
depression, etc, to come to you and simply acknowledge them. One
of the things that cause us the most misery in our lives is resistance; note
them as temporary sensations rather than misinterpreting them as a permanent
identity.
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Don’t turn to drugs, pills, alcohol, ice
cream or any other indulgence that is going to make you feel sluggish or
further your depression. If you are suffering with feelings of worthlessness,
you need to turn your energy to activities and behavior that will make you
feel great about yourself, like you own the world. Start doing something
that you’ve always wanted to do to improve yourself but procrastinated
about.
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Get a piece of paper or sit down at your word
processor and write out your feelings. As you continue to write, don’t
ignore any humorous thoughts and impressions that may come to you about how
you’re feeling. Be really honest with what’s going on and you’ll
see that deep down your thoughts are not all doom and gloom. Allow your
understanding of the breakup to expand into an understanding of relationships
in general, and through this understanding see that you’re far from
alone.
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Do not allow yourself to become bitter! Remember
always that what you give out comes back to you, and that this breakup might
be what allows you to find the person you were really meant to be with –
as long as you don’t shut down and close your eyes to that possibility.
Don’t ever lose sight of the fact that there
are millions of great people in the world of both sexes. By being active
and taking chances, you are much more likely to meet the people who will
understand you, as well as future romantic relationships and quite possibly
a life partner. Life is not about dwelling in memories; it’s about taking
chances, getting hurt, learning from our mistakes, having brief ‘f***
you’ thoughts that we can later laugh at, and – most importantly
– maintaining our right and responsibility to be self-possessed. We
don’t live in a world where we can always control other people’s
actions (nor should we), but we do live in a world where we can control our
own reactions to them.
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| Getting
To Commitment
Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into
relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language,
and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions
are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment
issues or involved with someone who is.
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| He's
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Available for the first time in paperback,
this follow-up to the phenomenally successful
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the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying
contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore
why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the
equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and
real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom
gained by personal experience,
He's
Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine,
sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.
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| Men
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This book saved me from going crazy and
from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate
commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that
all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded
just like the people in this book she'd read -
"Men
Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What
a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the
behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my
boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers
while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from
me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid
out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the
same time.
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Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality
This is a
great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you
have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD
it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual
to other are understandable and can be explained and
treated. |
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