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Divorce--How to Protect Your
Children
By Ed
Sherman
Fighting over your kids (custody, visitation,
parenting) is the worst possible thing that can happen to you or your kids--it's
always ugly. Studies show that harm to children is more closely related to
conflict after the divorce. Everyone has conflict before and during
a divorce, but if you want to protect your children, get finished with the
conflict and resolve it, at least within yourself, as quickly as possible.
Children learn much more by what you model than by what you say. By continuing
conflict long after the divorce, you are teaching your children by your actions
that problems can't be solved.
Children need their relationship with both parents.
There is a bonding between parent and child that cannot easily be replaced
by a surrogate parent or stepparent. To protect the essential parent-child
relationship, you have to insulate children from your own conflict with their
other parent. The divorce is not their problem; it's yours. Being a bad wife
or husband does not make your spouse a bad parent. So don't hold the children
hostage--they are not pawns or bartering pieces in your game. When it comes
to the parenting schedule, don't bargain with your spouse on any other basis
than what will give your children the most stability and the best contact
with both parents.
The worst thing for the child of a broken home
is feeling responsible for the breakup and feeling that loving one parent
is a betrayal of the other. These feelings cause children intense stress
and insecurity. To protect your child from almost unbearable pain, don't
say anything bad about the other parent in front of the child; don't undermine
or interfere in any way with the child's relationship with or love for the
other parent; don't put the child in a position of having to take sides.
Do encourage every possible kind of constructive relationship your
child can have with your ex-mate. Let the children know that you are happy
when they have a good, loving time with their other parent. |
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| Kids can really get on your nerves at a time
like this, and single parenting is enough to overwhelm any normal person.
You are not Superman or Mary Marvel, and kids are not designed to be raised
by one lone person. You need help and support, and you need time off from
the kids. Make a point of getting help from family, friends and the many
parent support groups and family service agencies throughout the United States.
Get references to groups in your area by calling temples, churches or social
service agencies.
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Ed Sherman is a family law attorney, divorce
expert, and founder of Nolo Press and Divorce Helpline. He started the self-help
law movement in 1971 when he published the first edition of How to Do
Your Own Divorce, and founded the paralegal industry in 1973. Ed has
saved the public billions of dollars in legal fees while making divorce go
more smoothly and easily for millions of readers. You can order his books
from
http://www.nolodivorce.com
or by calling (800) 464-5502. |
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Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into
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and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions
are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment
issues or involved with someone who is.
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contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore
why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the
equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and
real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom
gained by personal experience,
He's
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sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.
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This book saved me from going crazy and
from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate
commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that
all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded
just like the people in this book she'd read -
"Men
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a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the
behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my
boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers
while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from
me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid
out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the
same time.
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Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality
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have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD
it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual
to other are understandable and can be explained and
treated. |
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