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Who Broke Your Heart?
By Trevor
Emdon
Who Broke Your Heart?
Okay, this is a tough one. Stick with me, because
this is a bumpy ride.
Ready? Here we go…
If you’ve had your heart broken, you must
take responsibility if you’re ever going to get over it.
Phew! I said it! But read it carefully.
I didn’t say take the blame, I said
responsibility. They’re not the same thing. Responsibility is the ability
to respond – which means you can make different choices next time. Blame
is just being angry either at yourself, another or some intangible such as
God, the weather, your time of life and so forth. Not helpful, in the sense
that that doesn’t give you anything to work with.
To heal from heartbreak go back in your mind
to when you first met – your first awareness of attraction for this
other person. Whatever you saw in them was a direct reflection of whatever
was going on in you at the time. You’ll need to be brutally honest with
yourself. (Told you it was going to be a bumpy ride, didn’t I?)
Honestly, were you aware of a sense, for example,
of “he (or she) will do”? Did you in some way settle for second
best? If you did, you considered yourself second best! |
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| Did you think they were perfect, or in some
way better than you? Did you put him or her, mentally, on a pedestal? If
you did, once again you weren’t on equal terms, and sooner or later,
they were bound to fall from that lofty place!
Did you take love that was offered when you
weren’t sure you had it in equal measure to give back?
These are tough, tough questions, and I’m
not giving them out so you can beat yourself up. They’re so you can
polish up your image – to yourself.
Once you’ve done that, you’ll shine!
(What else would you expect from a polished image?)
If you’re serious about getting yourself
back on the road to love after a break-up, do yourself a favour and read
my book, “How To Love Again When Your Heart’s Been Broken.”
I can’t put the whole thing in this brief bulletin, but the link is
on my website: http://www.wizardofwisdom.com.
Just to make you feel a little better before
I leave you, though, think on this: whatever the other person did or didn’t
do that contributed to the break up, (or break down), of your relationship
is something they have to live with forever. You don’t!
As a very dear and wise friend once pointed out
to me: s**t sticks and it’s smelly. But if it’s someone else’s
you can wash it off and then you’ll be clean again. They, on the other
hand, will still be full of it!
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Trevor Emdon, (Wizard of Wisdom).
http://www.wizardofwisdom.com
Trevor is a senior mental health practitioner
based in the UK. He holds a diploma in NLP and teaches and writes extensively
on personal & spiritual development. His website is
http://www.wizardofwisdom.com
and his blog devoted to dating can be found at
http://art-of--seduction.blogspot.com
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| Getting
To Commitment
Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into
relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language,
and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions
are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment
issues or involved with someone who is.
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| He's
Scared, She's Scared
Available for the first time in paperback,
this follow-up to the phenomenally successful
Men Who Can't Love tackles
the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying
contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore
why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the
equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and
real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom
gained by personal experience,
He's
Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine,
sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.
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| Men
Who Can't Love
This book saved me from going crazy and
from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate
commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that
all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded
just like the people in this book she'd read -
"Men
Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What
a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the
behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my
boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers
while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from
me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid
out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the
same time.
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Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality
This is a
great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you
have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD
it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual
to other are understandable and can be explained and
treated. |
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