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Starting Over: Dating After
Divorce
By Tonja
Weimer
Starting over after a divorce or breakup can
be hard. Where do you go and what do you do? Men and women lose at least
half of their social network when they get divorced. Their relationships
with relatives, in-laws, neighbors, work colleagues, and spousal friends
all shift and change. It takes determination to get out there and date. How
do you start over?
* Take care of your heart.
You are vulnerable at this time. Quiet, reflective,
or reading time is good. Hiking, fishing, gym time, art activities, team
sports, cycling, cooking, counseling, classes, and self work is good. Spending
time with close friends and family is good. Brooding, worrying, and obsessing
on negative thoughts is not good.
*Plan your weekends.
When you are home alone, spend some time planning
where you will go on the weekends. Weekends alone can be real downers if
you are recently separated or divorced. Call a cousin, or your mother, father,
sister, brother, uncles, aunts, nieces or nephews. You have people in your
life you can take places with you who will not look like a date, no matter
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| *Find your forgotten talents.
Think about what you have always wanted to do
or used to do but put it down long ago. Take the action steps to get involved
in those activities again. Did you used to play tennis, ride horses, paint,
sing, tap dance, travel, or play an instrument? Have you always wanted to
act, design clothes, weave, grow a garden, swim, or fix clocks? No matter
how bizarre it may sound to your friends, find what you have always loved
to do or longed to discover and get busy. Instead of dwelling on what went
wrong with your life, start looking at what you have going for you. You can
build a new and wonderful life.
*Attend some social events.
It may feel awkward, but getting out to meet
new people in "safe" settings like church, weddings, reunions, funerals,
gatherings at friend's houses, meetings, conventions, conferences, and classes
will give you energy. Stay as unattached as possible to the outcome. Consider
your evenings out as an exploration into the possible.
* Visualize.
Before you go to any function, visualize how
you would like your time there to be. See yourself as being friendly and
confident, meeting interesting people. Before you fall asleep at night, picture
how you would like your day and week to be. See yourself as calm, happy,
productive, and loved by those around you.
Whenever you get out, remember to smile and make
eye contact with people. Ask questions, listen to the answers, and start
conversations. Reach out. This is how you begin to build the foundation for
dating and starting over.
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| Getting
To Commitment
Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into
relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language,
and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions
are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment
issues or involved with someone who is.
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| He's
Scared, She's Scared
Available for the first time in paperback,
this follow-up to the phenomenally successful
Men Who Can't Love tackles
the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying
contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore
why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the
equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and
real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom
gained by personal experience,
He's
Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine,
sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.
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| Men
Who Can't Love
This book saved me from going crazy and
from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate
commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that
all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded
just like the people in this book she'd read -
"Men
Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What
a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the
behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my
boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers
while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from
me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid
out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the
same time.
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Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality
This is a
great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you
have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD
it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual
to other are understandable and can be explained and
treated. |
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