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Relationships -The One Element That
Exists In This World That Heals A Broken Heart
By Alisa
Chagnon
Time
We should be so grateful for time. Many of us
are afraid of time. As each second passes, it marks one more moment that
our life has past by, and marks one more moment that we are closer to the
time given to us on this earth. However, when one is suffering the emotional
pain of a lost love, time can be the savior to our souls.
Many of us are afraid of time. As each second
passes, it marks one more moment that our life has past by, and marks one
more moment that we are closer to the time given to us on this earth. However,
when one is suffering the emotional pain of a lost love, time can be the
savior to our souls.
When faced with the end of a relationship, severe
emotional pain can set in. It does not matter if the relationship had a dawdling
and painful death or if the end came about in a swirl of astonishment. The
bottom line is that when a person truly loves another, and that relationship
has broken up, a person can go through one of the most difficult phases of
their life.
Everyone deals with pain and loss in different
ways. Some take the route of denial, perhaps diving into their careers or
personal hobbies as a way of deflecting the emotions that they are feeling.
The majority of people have the more common reaction. That reaction is one
of grief, sorrow and depression. Depending on how much a person depended
and trusted someone, the depression can reach exceedingly high limits. Feeling
betrayed by someone that we put all trust into, can drop a person into a
deep, dark hole of misery. |
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| There is no answer to fixing a broken heart.
There are no words to suffice to fix the pain. There is no magic way to bring
back a lost love and restore balance to a world that has been turned upside-down.
There is, however, time. Precious time. If not for time, one would suffer
endlessly. When dealing with a broken heart, it may seem that the pain will
never end. That is when the simple word “time” will bring relief
even to those most pessimistic of its power.
No matter how much a person is hurting, no matter
how deep the scars and how ripped apart one’s heart feels, time is the
one factor that will slowly repair the heart and mind of the heartbroken.
Most people who are suffering and mourning a lost love, do not wish to think
that time will fix anything. The pain can be so overwhelming; the word
“time” provides no relief. Luckily, even if a person does not care
to acknowledge time and does not believe time will fix anything, it does
not stop “time”. Time is one of the only things that is consistent
and everlasting. Time stops for no one. Time will happen whether one wishes
for it or not. Moreover, time will cure a broken heart.
When feeling the first onslaught of devastation
from a breakup, terrible depression may set in. Cutting him or herself off
from society, unwilling or unable to function properly, people can hide within
themselves, not wanting to deal with reality. Time does not appear to help
much in this phase, except for the important and mere fact that it is happening.
As each day passes, a person is crying, praying for relief and wishing so
strongly for their love to be restored, time is there. It is beside us. It
is slowly ticking by, and is silently providing us a future escape from the
pain.
As the days progress by, time has moved us from
the horrific first days of shock and disbelief into the first weeks of the
pain. The shock has subsided a bit; the crying may have decreased by now.
A heart may still feel pain; however, it is slightly less incapacitating.
Time was there, and time was helping us, whether we wanted it to or not.
One or two months after a breakup, the world
begins to look different. The severe, debilitating pain has lessened by now.
A feeling of the heart stabbed at every mention of love or relationship has
ceased. We may even be able to smile at a joke or a humorous television show.
While perhaps not ready to meet someone new, or enter the dating scene quite
yet, time unwittingly moved us into a more settled and comfortable zone.
Several months after a breakup, or even up to
a year later, time has then moved us to a new place in life. A place that
we at one moment, we did not believe existed. The sting of the breakup is
gone and the suffering has stopped. We can once again function normally.
The prospect of finding a true love appears to be a possibility. The love
that we so sorrowfully mourned is a memory now. The person’s face has
become a blur. Time was there, all along to help us. It did not care that
we did not believe. It dutifully did its job.
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Written by Alisa Chagnon, webmaster and
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| Getting
To Commitment
Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into
relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language,
and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions
are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment
issues or involved with someone who is.
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| He's
Scared, She's Scared
Available for the first time in paperback,
this follow-up to the phenomenally successful
Men Who Can't Love tackles
the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying
contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore
why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the
equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and
real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom
gained by personal experience,
He's
Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine,
sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.
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| Men
Who Can't Love
This book saved me from going crazy and
from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate
commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that
all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded
just like the people in this book she'd read -
"Men
Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What
a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the
behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my
boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers
while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from
me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid
out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the
same time.
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Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality
This is a
great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you
have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD
it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual
to other are understandable and can be explained and
treated. |
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