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The Breakup: When the One You Want Doesn't
Want You
By Tonja
Weimer
Did you go through a breakup with the love of
your life? Are you feeling depressed and rejected? When the one you want
doesn't want you it can feel like the worst time of your life.
The breakup of a love relationship and the ensuing
sense of rejection from that experience can leave you feeling insignificant,
unlovable, and unattractive. It is easy to become jaded, cynical, and convinced
that love does not exist for you. What's worse, you may even be tempted to
settle for a relationship that is less than you want.
If you have gone through a breakup, now is the
time to seize the moment and learn all you can from it. If you embrace the
lessons outlined here, you won't be in this place again. Now is the time
to know: your life is not over. It is just beginning. Discover the following
about yourself:
* You are wonderful
When you have gone through a breakup, it is important
to remember that you have many great qualities and a lot to contribute. If
the one you want doesn't want you--you don't want them. It is time to put
your time, energy, and love into yourself, rather than someone else, and
focus on your strengths. Get back into everything you love to do, take time
to mend and heal, and get your focus off of the negative. Sitting around
and brooding is not good. Taking time to ride your bike, spend time with
friends, play with your dog, cook dinner for co-workers, enroll in a class,
and work with a counselor or coach is good. |
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| * Look for past clues
Ask yourself when you felt this way in the past.
Dig deep. You will probably find some old feelings of unworthiness. Work
to heal those thoughts, feelings, and past experiences that wounded you and
you may find yourself getting over this breakup faster than you would have
imagined.
* Think about when you knew this relationship
was not going to work
Shortly into your relationship, it was revealed
to you that this love affair was not going to work. The clues are usually
right in front of us but for whatever reason, we don't want to see them.
It could be fear, loneliness, desperation, or loss that makes us cling to
the impossible or live in denial. This breakup-moment is the perfect time
to sit down and get clear about what exactly it is you require in a relationship.
Then, when you meet someone new, you won't spend time trying to force a
relationship where one was never meant to be. Here are some requirements
that other people say they must have in another in order for their partnership
to last: honesty, fidelity, mutual love, loyalty, kindness, successful career,
and addiction free. Do you know what your non-negotiable requirements
are?
The breakup with a significant other can be a
time of growth and great promise. You have learned something big. Look for
what that is and you will have found the pearl of wisdom you can carry forward
into your life and your future relationships.
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Copyright 2006, Tonja Weimer. (Please
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| Getting
To Commitment
Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into
relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language,
and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions
are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment
issues or involved with someone who is.
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| He's
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Available for the first time in paperback,
this follow-up to the phenomenally successful
Men Who Can't Love tackles
the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying
contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore
why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the
equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and
real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom
gained by personal experience,
He's
Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine,
sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.
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| Men
Who Can't Love
This book saved me from going crazy and
from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate
commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that
all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded
just like the people in this book she'd read -
"Men
Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What
a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the
behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my
boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers
while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from
me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid
out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the
same time.
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Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality
This is a
great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you
have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD
it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual
to other are understandable and can be explained and
treated. |
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